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【七绝】哭元元 -- 万润南 - (112 Byte) 2009-12-13 周日, 上午7:52 (1646 reads) |
nunia
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作者：nunia 在 寒山小径 发贴, 来自 http://www.hjclub.org
My Tsinghua classmate Julia was a star on campus during our school years. Her boyfriend was a graduate student in management and a trumpet player in the school band. She loved dancing and singing. After graduation, she married her sweetheart and was working for the government in foreign trade business. During an official visit, she left her working unit and choose to stay in US illegally. The separation wasn't easy on both of them. Her husband was very understanding of her dream to stay in US. They divorced. She married a tall and handsome American guy and became a legal residence, went to graduate school and earned a master degree in computer science. After 2000, her ex-husband became a very successful business man in China, remarried and had two children. She returned a couple of times to her hometown which is booming with new economy. She relayed to me the happy hours at Oracle corporate Party that she even met CEO Larry Ellison in person. She had a very understanding boss. But she wasn't happy with her career which requires her to fly from city to city and stay in hotels for long stretch of times for different projects. She had an affair with her American husband's best friend. She told me that they couldn't have a future together because she can't imagine to be the mother of his daughter from the last marriage. She ended up divorcing her American husband and quit her job at Oracle. She went to California to start a new life. But new competitions seemed so meaningless to her. She returned to her own house in Phoenix that now belonged to her ex-husband by their divorce agreement. He had a new Chinese girlfriend who apparently don't appreciate of her coming back to her ex-husband. She hanged herself in July. Her ex-husband emailed me repeatedly to see if I can help her in any way because she was suicidal. I talked to her roommate in Tsinghua years who was living close to me. She dismissed her ex-husband's warnings telling me that she was like that even when she was in her student years. We were both shocked when News came that she hanged herself in her ex-husband house.
I had Julia's online networking profile. After 6 months that she left this world, her friends were still leaving messages on her online site, asking what she was doing and how they missed her contact.
It is very hard to tell when and why a person would decide to end one's life they have been striving to live in their imagined glory or when and why they lost their sense of being alive.
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