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作者：芦笛 在 罕见奇谈 发贴, 来自 http://www.hjclub.org
I meant to call you "Plus Slave" but changed my mind as I remembered "nucai" is a forbidden word now, ha ha.
I saw your poster the other day, but was too busy to respond. Apparently, you misunderstood me again, believing that I was going to throw a lightening onto you. To tell you the truth, I am really fed up with this endless explanation and clarification business. Having you as a friend is just like wooing a most sensitive and vulnerable young girl. One needs the patience of a saint (sigh).
Look, Old Plus, let me make myself crystal clear: I am a real believer of the Western liberalism, believing in tolerance of various opinions. I make friends regardless of their opinions and retaliate only when I am provoked. Here the "provocateur" means someone without the minimal ability to conduct proper thinking so as to criticize my opinions. Instead, they resort to moral or political criticism, good at only decrying me with various political or moral labels. The best example of such persons was the professor and he got what he deserved in the end.
Incredibly, another professor did not learn the lesson and was recently trying to play the old trick again by accusing me of "diandao shifei" (claiming right to be wrong, and vice versa). As you know, I promptly forestalled his further attempt. I did so to save his face, not mine. Indeed, if I did not do that, then he, like Prof Fan before him, would be encouraged by my restraints, believing that he had the upper-hand and would pester me further until I finally exploded and revealed to the public most convincingly how stupid he actually was.
Frankly, my worst headache is not that there are so many idiots on the web, but that they do not know this fact and dream that they could beat me. Obviously, if I took everyone seriously, I would have no time to do anything else. So my strategy is to "qiang da chu tou niao", ie, picking up a representative of famous idiots and ruthlessly tearing his mask piece by piece. After that, I could enjoy a moment of piece and focus on what I would like to write.
This strategy seems to work beautifully. Now no famous idiots or women dare to irritate me with their remarks following my posters. By playing tough, I have finally won for myself some precious peace.
This strategy, however, does not mean that I cannot tolerate different opinions, or I cannot put up with criticisms that focuses on my opinions. There have been so many examples of my peaceful discussions with critics in the past, which you can easily find in the collection of my articles in this forum.
If you understood my strategy, you would never worry about offending me, because you have never provoked me like the others. Honestly, I never understand why you should guess my unfavorable reaction every now and then. You are too unnecessarily sensitive.
This time though, perhaps it was my fault. In my previous poster, I quoted your proposal of "no reading each other's posters and no commenting on each other's posters". I do not know if you still remember this. But I do remember you proposed it when you had a fight with Anhunqu about one year ago.
I really believe this is a great proposal and should become a "web law". That is why I quoted it, not out of any personal reasons, but because of the value of this proposal. Indeed, if people who hate me stop reading my pieces, as I rarely, if at all, read theirs, then we will have a persistent peace on the web.
PS
Please allow me to correct a small mistake of yours: Jin Lu is not my "old enemy". She never was. Nobody I have had a fight with is qualified to be my "enemy". We are simply two difference species. Can a satin fish be your enemy?
As for my quarrel with her, you do not know the inside story. So do not interpret things at their face values.
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