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不了解 NPD (自恋型人格障碍) 就不了解芦笛

captain nino

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标题: 不了解 NPD (自恋型人格障碍) 就不了解芦笛 (764 reads) 时间: 2014-5-17 周六, 上午8:54

作者：captain nino 在驴鸣镇发贴, 来自 http://www.hjclub.org

http://www.hjclub.info/bbs/viewtopic.php?p=2861500

看了票友写的上面的新贴, 感觉他对芦笛的心理分析一针见血. 我之前指出过, 芦笛的 "心病" 之一, 就是 NPD (Narcissistic personality disorder). 只不过, 我之前还不知道芦笛原来从前承认过自己极度自卑, 靠战胜了对手与粉丝团吹捧两个因素, 才变得 "自信". 这个新的以前不为我所知的资料, 更加让人确信芦笛的确是个非常典型的标本型的 NPD 人士.

何谓 NPD? 这个是 Narcissistic personality disorder 的缩写, 中文大致可以翻译成自恋型人格缺陷症. 这个症状的特征, 芦笛几乎全部拥有. 下面根据维基百科对这个症状的描述结合芦笛本人来细细分析.

维基百科对该症状的概要如下:

Some people diagnosed with a narcissistic personality disorder are characterized by exaggerated feelings of self-importance. They have a sense of entitlement and demonstrate grandiosity in their beliefs and behavior. They have a strong need for admiration, but lack feelings of empathy.[5]

Expects to be recognized as superior and special,
自以为自己是优越的和特殊的

这条芦笛完全符合. 芦笛总认为自己比别人优越, 自己很 "特殊". 比如他几天前就说过, 这世界上能和他做深度讨论的人还没出世. 他认为自己是前无古人后无来者的大文豪, 总以为自己天下第一.

Expects constant attention, admiration and positive reinforcement from others
期待不间断的关注, 夸赞, 和他人给予的积极回馈

这条完全符合. 引用票友的文章来说:
"老芦如果真有自信，本也可以无视别人的批评了。但是老芦是个极度自卑的人，一分一秒也没改变过。他的自信，只能来自于不断的“赢”，和粉丝不断的吹捧。粉丝不断的吹捧，让老芦得意忘形，不知自己究竟能吃几碗干饭，狂妄到以为自己是新闻联播了。

老芦虽然从输给他的对手和粉丝身上找到了自信，但是他本质上还是一个自卑的人。他的那些虚幻的自信，是建立在他的那些不入流的手下败将和粉丝团们不断吹捧的基础上的。老芦虽然宣称是来单向传播的，他新开的博客却打开了评论功能，是因为老芦只有从吹捧他的人身上，才能获得满足感，所以老芦不会象他所说的那样，办一个新闻联播式的单向传输的博客。"

所以说票友对芦笛这个心理看的非常准, 尽管自认文盲, 却看出了芦笛的 "自信心" 的虚幻的建构.

Envies others and believes others envy him/her
嫉妒他人并认为他人嫉妒他

这个很自然. 芦笛既然以为自己是天下第一, 那别人当然会嫉妒他. 他把别人比作猴子甚至寄生虫, 自己比作大树, 潜意识里, 就是以为别人嫉妒他的 "成就", 所以要寄生于他.

Is preoccupied with thoughts and fantasies of great success, enormous attractiveness, power, intelligence
脑子里充斥了自己极为成功, 有极好的外貌, 极大的权力, 极高的智力的幻想

有了芦笛 "世界上能和他做深度讨论的人还没出世" 这句名言, 还用解释不? 他以为自己的智力打遍天下无敌手, 自己的文笔无人能比.

Lacks the ability to empathize with the feelings or desires of others
缺乏移情能力, 无法感到他人的感受

这是典型的芦笛的性格缺陷. 他极度缺乏移情能力, 所以在为人处世上处处碰壁, 赶走了一个又一个写手. 所谓移情能力, 简单的说就是理解他人怎么想的能力, 会理解他人感受, 才可能把关系搞好, 这个能力芦笛完全是缺乏的.

Is arrogant in attitudes and behavior
态度和行为傲慢

这个还用说吗? 芦笛的网德怎么样很清楚.

Has expectations of special treatment that are unrealistic
觉得自己应该有 (其实不现实的) 的特殊待遇.

这个很符合票友文章的一句话: "最近老芦因为自认劳苦功高，
却没有得到大熊猫一样的国宝级待遇而要上吊自杀。"

的确如票友所说, 芦笛以为自己是大文豪, 别人不能反对他, 只能吹捧他. 还说过 "我才是你们的大施主，无偿为你们奉献了那么多年的精神食粮", 好像别人只能对他磕头似的.

维基百科接下来的内容对 NPD 的描述更像芦笛其人了, 真是神了.

The symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder can be similar to the traits of individuals with strong self-esteem and confidence; differentiation occurs when the underlying psychological structures of these traits are considered pathological. Narcissists have such an elevated sense of self-worth that they value themselves as inherently better than others, when in reality they have a fragile self-esteem, cannot handle criticism, and often try to compensate for this inner fragility by belittling or disparaging others in an attempt to validate their own self-worth. Comments and criticisms about others are vicious from sufferers of NPD, in an attempt to boost their own poor self-esteem.[9]

黑体字部分意思是, NPD 患者其实自尊心非常脆弱, 无法接受批评, 所以经常诉诸于攻击和侮辱他人来取得心理补偿. 对他人的批评经常非常刻薄严厉.

这个再明显不过了, 经常是别人没怎么骂芦笛, 芦笛却开始破口大骂, 像个街头痞子似的谩骂.一会儿这个是 "烂仔", 这个 "白痴", "弱智", " lowlife" (人渣), 好像人家跟他有深仇大恨似的.

Other symptoms in addition to the ones defined by DSM-IV-TR include: Is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends, has trouble keeping healthy relationships with others, easily hurt or rejected, appears unemotional, and exaggerating special achievements and talents, setting unrealistic goals for himself/herself.[6]

Easily hurt and rejected 这个词描述芦笛再好不过了. 气度小, 疑神疑鬼, 总以为别人要害他, 很小的一件事情他也总认为自己很受伤.

Narcissistic personality disorder is characterized by an over-inflated sense of self-importance, as well as dramatic, emotional behavior that is in the same category as antisocial and borderline personality disorders. [7]

Another narcissist symptom is a lack of empathy. They are unable to relate, understand, and rationalize the feelings of others. Instead of behaving in a way that shows how they are feeling in the moment, they behave in the way that they feel they are expected to behave or what gives them the most attention.[6]

他这次的一哭二闹三上吊符合这个 dramatic 和 emotional 行为的定义. 据网友所说这也不是睇一次了. 潜意识里他从根本上就是想靠此赢得关注 (attention-seeking).

Narcissistic individuals use various strategies to protect the self at the expense of others. They tend to devalue, derogate and blame others, and they respond to threatening feedback with anger and hostility.[22]

People who are narcissistic commonly feel rejected, humiliated and threatened when criticised. To protect themselves from these dangers, they often react with disdain, rage, and/or defiance to any slight criticism, real or imagined.[23] To avoid such situations, some narcissistic people withdraw socially and may feign modesty or humility. In cases where the narcissistic personality-disordered individual feels a lack of admiration, adulation, attention and affirmation, they may also manifest a desire to be feared and be notorious (narcissistic supply).

NPD 患者喜欢侮辱, 嫁祸他人, 容易因为对自己不利的言论动气动粗. 后面一句斜体黑字, 显然可以描述芦笛在现实生活中与他人会面 (比如那次参加的什么会议) 显得很谦逊的原因.

Although individuals with NPD are often ambitious and capable, the inability to tolerate setbacks, disagreements or criticism, along with lack of empathy, make it difficult for such individuals to work cooperatively with others or to maintain long-term professional achievements.[24] With narcissistic personality disorder, the individual's self-perceived fantastic grandiosity, often coupled with a hypomanic mood, is typically not commensurate with his or her real accomplishments

黑体字意思就是, NPD 患者没有宽容心, 无法接受批评以及移情能力的缺乏, 造成这类人很难与他人合作. 显然芦笛就是一个典型例子, 他的 NPD 导致了他无法与其他写手共存, 所以我说芦笛喜欢挥刀自宫.

总的而言, 芦笛是个典型的 NPD 患者. NPD 几乎能解释他的所有行为, 包括他这次哭闹着离坛. 不了解 NPD 就不了解芦笛, 就不会了解他很多行为的真正动机. 这里还要说一下票友, 尽管自称是文盲, 对芦笛的心理却了解透彻, 其对芦笛心理的揭露, 与心理学上的 NPD 定义不谋而合.

作者：captain nino 在驴鸣镇发贴, 来自 http://www.hjclub.org

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