I found out that relatively they were more approachable than those back here in the States. I can easily get their phone numbers, and even where they live. I teased them in both English and Chinese, which made them laughing and leaning towards me. Knowing both languages gave me much higher power and status. If I ran into girls from east Europe, my god they were all over me! Since I was married, so it was just teasing and testing to to see if that was in fact a doable idea.